Tampa Bay Times from St. Petersburg, Florida • 66

ryi Living Together Ruined Relationship J-D St, Petersburg Times, Saturday, March 24, 1973 7 4 ANN LANDERS li hi i tsssmmtdt 'Jr neighbors. Two weeks ago my mother died. My brother decided to let bygones be bygones. He went to the people next door gave too much and received' too little in Return. Understandably, they are bitter and resentful.

As for my. personal opinion, do 'I favor such experiments No. I do not. yary, according to area, and perhaps the customs you took for granted in your previous neighborhood are unheard of here. Your neighbors have made 'it abundantly clear that they don't wish to be friendly so greet them casually when you meet and don't look to them for friendship.

Not Worth It DEAR ANN LANDERS: Before I married I had a fine position. The company president ran into my husband yesterday and told him he'd love for me to come back at a nice increase in salary. Our baby is less than a year old. My husband says his widowed mother can move in and take over. We could surely use the money, but his mother and I never got along and I don't want to go back to work.

Help me decide. X.O. DEAR X.O.: No amount of money is worth a wrecked marriage. Say no. DEAR ANN LANDERS: Here's an admission of stupid-ityi defeat or whatever you want to call it.

Please print it. I'll feel better if I get it off my Ron and I both lived off-campus. My pad was bigger than his so I let him move in with me. We decided it would be cheaper and more practical since he was steeping over a lot anyway and we usually ate together. Neither of us felt we were ready for marriage.

I always believed girls who insisted on a wedding ring were trying to tie a guy up for security. I didn't want Ron to stay with me for any reason except because he wanted to. Well, here's where it's at after sixteen months of doing his laundry, typing his papers, cooking, cleaning and watching him smoke dope, contemplate his navel- and study eight religions Eastern and Western. He does no work around here (too spaced out) and wo argue constantly Last night he hassled me" about pestering him when he wanted to read, so I lost my cool and told him to get out. He said some pretty rotten things to me before he left.

Now I realize I made a big mistake. We had a truly beautiful relationship until he moved in. It spoiled everything. So please tell those other so-called liberated females that a chick's pad is a nice place for her guy to visit, but she shouldn't let him live P.S. Ron's main argument in favor of moving in with me was that living together before marriage pre-; vents divorce.

Any comment? Ree-Gretz DEAR REE: There is no evidence that living together Jwfore marriage reduces the possibility of divorce. As a matter of fact I'm receiving letters like yours in increasing numbers, as time goes on. The girls usually feel they 1 1 ji li to take up a collection from Unfriendly Neighbors the other neighbors for flow-DEAR ANN LANDERS: We ers. Thev said they had never moved to this neighborhood because we heard it was friendly. Friendship always meant a lot to us.

We lived here three months and not one living soul has come over to welcome My brother thought this was pretty crummy and decided he wanted nothing to do with our MBS. BOUCHARD Miss Michalik in mrs. McCarthy Miss Bourgholtxer Weddings rf -feasts Finals More Teens Enter 2 Unscramble these four Jumbles, one letter to each square, to form four ordinary words. and asked if they would like done such a thing before and shut the door. We never heard from them after that.

We love this house and don't want to move. How does one cope with neighbors who are so cold and unfriendly? Hurt Feelings DEAR BURT: Customs tants. THE OTHER 10 girls, se- lected at two previous preliminary pageants, are Megan Carroll, Melanie. Gibson, Gail George, Janet Klein, Jana Larmon, Sheryl A Robin McBee, Mary Loughlin, Christina Pananelli and Gina WUlingham. Each of the preliminaries have been held at the Wood-lawn Recreation Center.

Art McQuillen announced the young teenagers who made their bow before a backdrop of Festival of States Flags. BELZA For Junior Sungoddess UNMOD I I I Hut ietamiltd wui fam Now arrange the circled letters to form the surprise answer, as unuted by the above cartoon. A. A. A A HOW THSLOSEft ACVAFE 1 .2 I LJ Five more pretty teenagers were selected Friday night as finalists for the Junior Sun-goddess title.

They were: Sylvia Brown, Cynthia Davis, Debbie House, Margie Hugill, and Cindy Gro-ver. They will join 10 other, finalists at the St. Petersburg Yacht Club this coming Friday night, before family and friends, when judges will choose the 1973 Junior Sun-goddess. The winner will have been carefully selected from the original field of 66 contes MRS. GUTER Miss Charter MRS.

McNULTY Miss Amick served with the U.S. Navy. He is employed by Metropolitan Life Insurance Co. After a wedding trip to Lido Beach, they will reside in Clearwater. Kubicki-Quigley Miss Heidi Linda Quigley became the bride of Joseph John Kubicki III on Friday at Rio Vista Presbyterian Church.

The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Philip A. Quigley, 5831 Denver St. NE.

The bridegroom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Joseph J. Kubicki 542 40th Ave. NE.

The bride is a graduate of Northeast High School, St. Petersburg Junior College and the University of South Florida (USF). She is employed by Northeast Day Care Center. The bridegroom is a graduate of Northeast High- School and attends USF. He is employed by Save Rite.

After a wedding trip to Walt Disney World, they will reside in St. Petersburg. McCarthy-Bourgholtzer Miss Jana Bourgholtzer became the bride of Edward C. McCarthy on Friday at Our Lady of the Lakes Church in Miami Lakes. The bride is the daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Raymond Bourgholtzer, J919 80th St. N. The bridegroom is the son of Charles McCarthy of Hialeah and Mrs. Alicia Snyder of Cocoa Beach.

The bride is a graduate of Dixie Hollins High School and attended Florida State University. She is employed by Altermans Trucking. The bridegroom is a graduate of Miami Springs High School and attended Dade 1 Hi YWNES Bouchard-Michalik Miss Sheila Michalik became the bride of Roger 0. Jr. on Friday at St.

iiCecelia's Church in piearwa-ptev. k' The bride is the daughter of and Mrs. Leo J. Michal- ik, 7 Dorado Place, Clearwater. The bridegroom isjhe son of Mr.

and Mrs. Roger 0. Bouchard, 820 Regent The bride and bridegroom t.lare graduates of Clearwater Catholic High School, St. Pe- tersburg Junior College and Vthe University of West They were members of T6ie Phi Alpha National Social f- Welfare Honor Society. After a wedding trip to Lido Beach, the couple will reside in Clearwater.

FrtobSKmilOIlfcri I JumblMi STU.NO OXIDI CIRCUS SICKEN Ywterdt'. sqns mJj COMPOSE 1 MRS. KUBICKI Miss Quigley MRS. YEAGER Miss Davison Junior College. He is employed by Bell Telephone.

After the wedding, they will reside in Hialeah. McNulty-Amick Miss Susan Elizabeth Amick. became the bride of Donald Alexis McNulty on Friday at the First United Methodist Church. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs.

Marvin P. Amick, 1011 Keystone Drive, Clearwater. The bridegroom is the son of Mrs. Donald W. McNulty, 2642 Osaka Drive, Clearwater, and the late Mr.

McNulty. The bride is a graduate of Clearwater High School and St. Petersburg Junior College. She attended Penland School of Crafts. -The bridegroom is a graduate of Largo High School and attends the University of South Florida.

After a wedding trip to St. Petersburg Beach, they will reside in Clearwater. Yeager-Davison Miss Jane Conway Davison became the bride of George Wayne Yeager Jr. on Friday at a private ceremony in Dal-ton, Ga. The bride is the daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. Henry D. Davison, 3328 Bayshore Blvd. NE. The bridegroom is the son of Rev.

and Mrs. G. Wayne Yeager of Dalton, Ga. The bride is a graduate of St. Petersburg High School and Emory University.

The bridegroom is a gradu ate of Fairmount High School and attended Georgia State University. He is employed as a manufacturer's agent. After the wedding, they will reside in Atlanta. SUNDAY Joan Hodgson, of the St. Petersburg Park and Recreation Department, sent the girls into the spotlight with a final word of encouragement.

In demure long gowns, each stood bright eyed and breathless but controlled at the mike to give her spontaneous answer to the question read by McQuillen. Sharing the spotlight was 1972 Junior Sungoddess, Honora Growney, sitting in a red chair center stage. The contest is sponsored by the city recreation department and the Suncoasters who produce the Festival of States. a y-" FULL OR BUIIK BEDS 2 Siolv MaHr. CijJ A Guard Rail Laddtrf HEAVY SPANISH OR MAPLE FINISH $148o COMPLETE HOTEL AMD HOTEL QUALITY SAV! T0 50 B3hM IKIIIG SIZE SETS vaiid i TTMHyi 1 1 jBOBiB mm pack- S1 1 Li 1 SI hi 5 I INCLUDES 2 KINO SHEETS CllOICE Bi jT A Sr ftTA 2 king pillows ffl CtiM A vijzW V- fetuX-4 noDaVlustiuted I SLEEPER iiAJlAii Wms HM'(Li midsize iUJ iKKMA VJJiiHlMtt SIZE NWVl fl similar to -Mei iiAiiA fuusize I Li 7 (I ILLUSTRATION 1 VJ I MAPLE OR FOR THE PRICE IMWWIM 10 BUNK SETS QUEEN SIZE '128 1 fli $Mfi0O rzmtm -nuiiai, L7S TO ILLUSTRATION COMPLETE Guter-Charter Miss Jo Ann Charter became the bride of Gerald Wayne Guter on Friday at the First United Methodist Church in Clearwater.

The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. George W. Charter, 1847 Oak Lake Drive, Clearwater. The bridegroom is the son of Mr.

and Mrs. Stephen Guter of Waterford, N.Y. The bride is a graduate of Clearwater High School, St. Petersburg Junior College and the University of Florida. She is a graduate student at the University of South Florida and was a member of Phi Kappa Phi and Pi Lambda Theta Honorary Societies.

The bridegroom is a graduate of Troy High School and attended the University of Kentucky and the "University of Delaware. He was a member of the Kappa Sigma and SKETCHES By BEN BURROUGHS It's fun to study faces of people that we meet it's interesting to watch the folks who pass us on the street for there are many types and forms that fascinate us all there are the little five by fives mixed with the strong and tall some wear the face of kindness with eyes that seem to flow while others have a calloused look that spreads gloom where they go but it must be remembered that underneath a face may be the direct opposite of what our eyes embrace and so when all is said and done I guess we'll never know the real, true character of folks that pass us to and fro. Outstanding. From pnii mail-. 5 Pc.

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